I think it’s excruciatingly important to infuse each and every word, action, gesture to every single person with Love. Allow every deed you do to be dripping with genuine loving kindness, a compassion, a gentleness, a warmness, love that touches to the core, reaches to the soul of a person. We cannot presume to understand the thoughts, beliefs, misbeliefs, pain of someone else, even if we are in an intimately loving relationship with them. There remains room to mask and minimize pain. Even if there is no pain that a person is drowning in, infuse all actions and words with love, understanding, a helpfulness.
Your infusion, demonstration of Love, the ONLY thing that there really, truly, honestly is, could be their saving grace. I’m genuinely sorry that I didn’t learn this sooner.